
Today is our final day of placement at St Juliet's for Gabi and I. We all met at St Stephens and started the long walk to St Juliet's. I've actually become used to the stares and shouts of “how are you. How are you? How are you?” And “Muzungu!!” It's become a little bit of a reality here- it's almost like we are celebrities as people stare and call out to us and children just want to hold our hands.
At school, I taught the 4th graders science- which today consisted of teaching the respiratory system. There was 82 students in my class. One class. I don't think I should ever complain of my larger-than-state- school class of 28 students again. I'm covered in chalk and dirt- and I almost had to laugh out loud of the moment I walked into the school and a student had been ordered to put water on the ground to make a path for me so it was not so dusty… Just muddy. It was a good class, despite the large amount of students. I had a lot more confidence today and pulled out a few behaviour management skills, demanding silence before I would continue the class. I think the Kenyan teachers and even my guides were pleasantly impressed-which was nice! Keep in mind that no teacher here has had any sort of formal training.
At recess, Gabi and I were asked to mark books while the children played- which annoyed me- I wanted to play! We had Sammy and a few of the Karibu leaders arrive which was a great excuse to leave the books and head outside with them. The children flocked all over us, wanting to hold our hands, hug us, touch our skin, jump on us, be picked up and play with our hair! They were so amazed at how soft our hair was (in reality to me it feels like straw as I havnt washed it in two days!!) my best moment was when I younger student came up and grabbed my arm- cupping his hands on my skin to make a dark space for him to look into to see if I was glow in the dark?! It was adorable- and so strange!
We played some songs and danced together as a group before it was our time to leave. There are so many of those kids faces that will stay with me. I felt like I have finally got started - and now it was time to leave. There are so many things in that school that I think I could help with. Not necessarily the students- but the teachers. It's one thing to give the school sports equipment and money, but unless the teachers are motivated and productive to use the money in a effective way, nothing gets done. Sadly, on many occasions- not much gets done. I walk away from this school feeling as though I have not helped them to my full potential yet. I walk away concerned that the money we donated is not going to be spent in a manner that benefits the school to its greatest potential. The teachers need training, they need guidance, they need some sort of financial plan to make sure they are sustainable and they can continue to provide for their students. It's one thing to give them money, but without being sure of what to do with it, I'm not feeling that confident to know that it will help.
Our next stop is back at the Mary Rice Centre. Brother Gerard has quite a fondness for Lisa and I since his visit to St Bernard's last year and he got so excited when we arrived- he just wants to show us everything! We spoke more to the teachers and therapists working at the special school and began speaking more about some of the students that given education there. We learnt that Gerry, a gorgeous happy child that is in a wheelchair due to a physical disability in his legs was chained up and hid for years by his mother, who thought she was doing the right thing to avoid him the embarrassment of people laughing at him. We learnt that Obama, another child with Cerebral palsy, was also chained up daily and hidden from the world due to his father believing that he was a disgrace on the family and he didn't want to world to see his shame. When asking the teachers what their biggest challenge of the school was, the response we received from all of them was the parents and the stigma that surrounds the children. There are so many negative associations here around children living with disabilities. Due to this stigma, there is also a number of unsupportive parents of children at Mary rice that simply don't care. It too hard in the slum to have a child with such high needs. One of the saddest stories of the day was when I met a loud excited, beautiful child, Sarah, who was diagnosed with Autism. The school has had to patch her up and take her to hospital on numerous occasions due to members of her family who have struck her numerous times in the head- suspected attempted murder. Twice this child has shown up at school with injuries that should have killed her- what a survivor! I am hoping that this child is properly protected now! I know that child protection services exist here due to the fact I just had to read a document outlining these laws since we are working with children in the Edmund rice camps on the weekend- not sure how effective this is though.There are lots of micro-finance projects run by the school to assist parents for school fees associated with Mary Rice. Many parents are involved in making clothes, bags, jewellery and cards to sell for money. I think it's fantastic that the school helps parents in their way, by giving them an education on how to manage their money and start up their own business in selling the goods they make. Again, I bought lots of beads- I guess people know what they are getting for presents!! ;) it's nice being able to support the incredible people we have met.
Walking back through the slums, it was beautiful when John invited Gabi and I back to his home to see inside one of the houses in Kibera slum. I felt really privileged that he was comfortable enough to invite us back to meet his family and see his house which houses 5 adults and 2 of his baby cousins. John lives with his aunt and uncle after his parents passed away of illness when he was young. His aunt is one of the most beautiful,humble people I have ever met. She welcomed us into her home with open arms and was happy to show us her house which her and her husband build themselves. Mud walls and a scrap corregated iron for a roof. Johns family is probably considered a wealthier family as they have their own walls made of thick mud to keep the heat out. Many shanti's are made of tin and cardboard and anything that can be found. We sat in a lounge room on makeshift couches and were shown family photos on the wall which obviously they were extremely proud of. There was a bed sheet separating the sitting room to the kitchen and bedroom. What I loved is that his aunty was so happy to have us there. She was proud of her house of 10x10 meters big, and I was proud of her. She has worked hard over the years running her own business in selling vegetables to support not only her own children, but her sisters children as well- she was just beautiful. Such happy, humble people.We arrived back in Karen after our incredible guide Karunja, organise a private matatu (mini bus) for us- what a gun! We placed in our bags and almost immediately Terry, Andrew G and I left to go visit the Parade school boys that arrived in Kenya yesterday. Terry has been working with the boys and wanted to welcome them, and I wanted to go to meet their Immersions coordinator,Rachael and to check out the bungalow that I will be staying in with the St Bernard's boys when I return to Kenya in June!
It's really nice! There is a bungalow at the back of the brothers house, which is built entirely from funds donated from the St Bernard's boys. It made me feel a little bit proud when I saw it. I am hoping to spend some time at Br. Beausang's next week to meet all the St Bernard's contacts.
On reflection tonight we had lots of discussions with Karunja on some of the issues in Kibera from the lack of sewage disposal to the litter issue. The water pipes, which are broken and leaking share the same paths as thes sewerage and the fact that many people live in vary poor conditions and live on one or no meals a day. Another issue we discussed is the thug life which exists in the country. There is a big issue of young men treating women poorly and of course theft and burglaries. You notice the big houses in the areas we are staying that they must know they are targets with high fences, barred windows and armed guards at the front of every building. Over here, police and security are trained to shoot to kill. If someone is suspected in being involved in the thug life, they are shot on the spot. No questions. Talking to our guide John today, he believes he has lost almost 20 friends. Karunja said he had lost 3 friends who have been shot. Again, a very different life to try and understand and digest.
Nairobi, Nairobi, Kenya

























