So.....it was the 10Th annual FREE North Branch Carnival today. We've lived here for almost 10 years.... 9 (Oct 99) and this was our first ever. See I've experienced a lot of "rough patches" between then and now, mostly anything that has to do with lots of people, crowds, etc I bail, so this was a first for us as a family! I've really been working on "my people issues" and trying to go outside of my pretty little box, today was a GREAT example of how to get over your people fears!
So the FREE fair was from 10am to 2pm. We arrived about 10:30am, and had a GREAT hour and a half of free fun. The boys got to see some fun animals...Bunnies, goats, lama's, chickens, etc. We got some free food, hot dogs, chips, can of pop, cookie. Then had 10 free games to tackle, everything from the balloon burst, to the basketball toss and more, there was also 4 (that I counted) Free
bouncies, ya know the BIG jump in the air kind of things....both boys enjoyed those immensely. We even got new bike helmets for FREE!
Anyway, on to the BAD PARENT MOMENT...so Jacob and Joshua were up against each other at the balloon burst game sight, and Jacob (being older) was wining, so Joshua out of NO WHERE after this great start to a great day...decided to just have a totally melt down. He got so angry, threw his game punch down on the ground, stamped at the balloon tank, gave me a dirty look (which, mind you I was the one in his corner cheering him on, despite the fact that my oldest was on the other side) and walked away. Picture this... 8.500 people reside in North Branch, and about Half of those said people were at this
frickin free fair, and now my child was having a total
tissy in front of them and what do I do????????? So calmly, I say....now Joshua that isn't the sportsman thing to do....finish the game, whether you win or not the right thing to do is FINISH. To which point he ran as fast as he could the other direction and I was left standing looking like a total ass. So after finding my youngest child, I say again very calmly to him, if you do not straighten up (this is something my mom would say to me....what does it really mean?) we will not play anymore games. HE STARTED TO SCREAM AND CRY AND ACT LIKE A CRAZY PERSON, so then I said to him, let's just calm down and do something else like the
bouncie thing, at which point he got even more angry, and YELLED AND SCREAMED AND I was totally embarrassed, and just started to walk away. We walked away (Jason supports my decision) so that Joshua would know it wasn't
ok to act that way, but I know some would have stayed
because it was free and fun and they have other children that had to suffer. So....I ask you this....is it fair that we left due to Joshua's totally lack of discipline, or unfair because Jacob who is much older had to also leave. My point of view is this....I wanted to do right by Joshua, whether or not people agree with it or not. By staying we would REWARD him for his negative behavior, giving him warnings I felt he should have been
ok, but choose to act out anyway. So.....what would you do???? By asking I know I may be up for some
unfavorable answers....but hey, that's why I'm here!